How do I get it?
Extended retreats of solitude and meditation?
Buckled down resolutions?
Fasting and prayer?
Mortification of sin?
By loving God and loving others?
I won't speak against any of these things. But according to 1 Peter 4:14 the answer is: get insulted for Jesus. "If you are insulted for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the Spirit of glory and of God rests upon you."
Shame on earth, bringing glory down from heaven.