In the fourth sermon in
Charity and its Fruits,
a series of 15 sermons on love from 1 Corinthians 13, Jonathan Edwards
preaches on the first quality ascribed to love in 1 Cor.
13:4--'long-suffering' (ESV 'patient'),
makrothumia.
The definitive Greek lexicon describes
makrothumia as
a 'state of remaining tranquil while awaiting an outcome' or 'state of
being able to bear up under provocation' (BDAG 612). The word is
comprised of a prefix meaning 'far, from afar' attached to a root
meaning 'wrath.'
After an extended beautiful
exposition of why we should be long-suffering as believers and what it
looks like, Edwards lists four motivations to
makrothumia. Indented paragraphs quote Edwards.
1. The example of long-suffering in Christ.
He
was a meek spirit and of a meek, long-suffering behavior. . . . He
meekly bore innumerable and very great injuries from men. (197)
2. The unavoidable need to be long-suffering.
If
we are not disposed meekly to bear injuries, we are not fitted to live
in such a world as this, for we can expect no other than to meet with
many injuries in this world. We do not live in heaven. . . . We live in a
fallen, corrupt, miserable, wicked world. . . . The world has even been
full of unreasonable men, men who will not be governed by rules of
justice, but are carried on in that way in which their headstrong lusts
drive them. . . . And therefore those who have not a spirit of meekness
and calmness, and composedness of spirit to bear injuries in such a
world are miserable indeed. (198)
3. The untouchability of someone who is long-suffering.
He
who has such a disposition and frame of mind established that the
injuries he receives from men do not exasperate his spirit, or disturb
the calm of his mind, lives as it were above injuries, and out of their
reach. He conquers them and rides over them. (199)
4. The glory of being long-suffering.
This
spirit of Christian long-suffering and meekly to bear injuries is a
true greatness of soul. It shows a fine and noble valor for persons thus
to maintain the calm of their minds; it shows an excellent inward
fortitude and strength. . . . It is from a littleness of mind that the
soul is easily disturbed. . . . He that possesses his mind after such a
manner that when others reproach him and injure him . . . can
notwithstanding maintain in calmness a hearty good will to his injurer .
. . he herein as it were manifests a godlike greatness of soul.
(200-201)
--Jonathan Edwards, 'Long-Suffering and Kindness,' in
The Works of Jonathan Edwards, Yale ed., 8:197-204